Well Obi the only thing to tell you is you know not what you speak. Christ taught of love and the first was love to God and the second was love to man.
You need both to be a Christian. If you love man without putting God first you fall short of any chance of salvation.
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JB Horn: I again have to disagree. I
do know of what I speak, and I find it a tad disrespectful that you should suggest that I don't, as though you had the right or authority to decree such.
The Scripture say love your neighbor as yourself, it also teaches love God above yourself. I'm sorry that you can't get your head around that.
Matthew 22:36-40
36. "Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?"
37. And He said to him, "'YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.'
38. "This is the great and foremost commandment.
39. "The second is like it, 'YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.'
40. "On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets."
I have a problem with that bit of scripture you quoted, "Love thy neighbor as thyself." The actual biblical passage, Mat 22:36-40 "Love the Lord and your neighbor as yourself," is quite immoral, because it's an impossible edict that sets a person up for immediate failure. It's a device to ensnare the believer it into a lifetime of servitude to an almost certainly imaginary being who is represented by other humans. No one can truly love a neighbor 100% as much as themselves, 24/7. So, in failing to keep this edict, the person automatically becomes a failed "sinner," who now needs "redemption." Isn't this a fake problem with an equally fake cure, meant to ensnare people?
On the other hand Islam teaches to kill Christians and Jews, and they kill thousands of them every year, but no condemnation from Obi. You are not here to un-convert to me, you are here to justify the love you have for yourself. In any case you have done neither and I predict that that feeling you have in your gut of loneliness and confusion is going to follow you until you find the truth.
Yes, the Koran does encourage violence against "infadels," but just because the Bible has no explicit commands to kill (well, except for Ex 22:18 KJV, "Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live,") (or, 1 Sam 15:3 KJV, "Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass." What was up with that, by the way? Why the animals, too? Not to mention killing everything and everyone (humans, land and sea animals, and plants) except a 600 year old man (??) and his immediate family.
And besides all that, it doesn't mean Christians didn't restrain themselves from Crusading around from time to time throughout history, right?
Well, no one asked for my specific opinion about the killing of Christians and Jews. I'm against it, in case you were wondering.
I never expected to de-convert anyone right off the bat, and even stated so in my very first post which began this thread. And again, you really have no right or authority to tell me how I feel (lonliness/confusion), and would like to politely ask you to stop doing that. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if I did the same thing to you.
My prayers and best wishes for you and your loved ones. JB
Otherwise, thanks for the well-wishes. Right back atcha, my friend. We may disagree, but ultimately, we are fellow travelers on this incredibly tiny blue marble in the great scheme of things, and I wouldn't have it any other way.